Hello there. On this channel I talk specifically about how to get your ex boyfriend back. Even though I myself don't believe it's a great idea to try to return someone who has broken up with you, I understand that many ladies do want to return their exes back and I will do my best to help them with that.
And in this video I will show you how your absence of actions will make your ex boyfriend run after you. Watch this video through the end because I'm going to give you lots of helpful information regarding the subject.
Before I start, I would like to tell you if you have any questions about your particular breakup story, you can leave comments below and I will try to answer your questions as much as I can.
Remember you can return practically any man, it's just a matter of time before he comes back. And if you have not succeeded yet - it means you are doing something wrong. That's why I'm here to help you to figure out what exactly you are doing wrong.
When you get broken up with, you feel terrible. You feel like the whole world around you goes to flames, you feel very lonely and scared because now you have to live your life by yourself and everything that you knew and made you happy feeling safe and secure disappeared. That's why your first reaction after a breakup is to try to get your ex life back as soon as you can.
You had hopes and dreams in your relationship, promises from your ex boyfriend for a better future, his help and care. Maybe you even hoped one day to marry that man. And now all those promises , hopes and dreams are gone because he broke up with you. Besides the fact that you feel that you love him and he's the best man in your life.
So your intuition, emotions and survival Instinct makes you run after him to restore your relationship and your hopes. This is a very normal and natural way to react.
But you have to understand that the lack of any actions to return him will pay off way more, especially now, in the beginning, right after he broke up with you.
Let me explain. When a man breaks up with you - he is one hundred percent certain that he does not need you anymore. That you are not a good match for him and he doesn't see any future with you. He does not feel anything towards you anymore. At least he thinks that way right now. So If you try to fix things with him now - you are going to ruin everything.
You will only cause a negative reaction if you continue to press him to come back. If you start calling him, text him and I will not leave him alone. You will only lower your volume if you start begging him for a return.
He might get a new girlfriend right away. And he will be very excited about dating her. He will not want to talk to you at all. She is a new shiny ball in his life. And he will be very interested in her because he doesn't know her that well yet. And you are an old book he has already read throughout too many times. But don't worry. It is always like that in the beginning of a relationship.
Men get excited about dating someone new. But after a while, he will start noticing her bad traits as well when he gets to know her better. And there is a big chance that the relationship will be over before it starts. There is a very small chance that this relationship will end up in a marriage and happily ever after. He will learn things about her he will not like. And will break up with her as well.
If you dated for over a year, he will start remembering you again because he had a strong connection with you After such a long period of time, and he knew all about your negative traits as well. He will forget about the negativity in your relationship after a while. Men tend to forget about negative things Quicker than we do. He will start missing you and think about the positive aspects of your relationship.
So your best action right now is not to do anything towards your ex-boyfriend. You have to concentrate on your life. You have to start working on yourself, improve yourself and your life to become the best version of yourself. You have to prepare your body and mind for his comeback. You have to work on your bad habits and your negative mindset.
You have to analyze your relationship and try to figure out what went wrong. You have an opportunity to improve now that you have time. You have an opportunity to become a high-value woman. The type of a woman he would love to have back in his life badly.
So by the time he starts missing you and tries to reach out to you, it will blow his mind to see how much improvement you have made. This should be your main goal for the sake of your future relationships and for yourself.
So the only action you need to do in order to return your ex is to work on yourself and your life. Because anytime you want to get something good in your life - you have to work for it, you have to improve yourself. When he sees your high value, he will want to get you back for sure. Because we all want good things in our lives. We want to date the best people.
And if you become the best woman he ever dated - he will run after you without a doubt. Forcing him or begging him to return to the old you will not do any good.
I will put a link to my video about the importance of BALANCE of VALUE in a relationship in the description section of this video.
And for now, just let him feel how it is to lose you. Let your silence do the work. He will only start realizing your value if he loses you completely.
Maybe you can recall times when some of your exes were coming back to you trying to get you back. That happens when you completely stop thinking about them. When you lose all the emotional connection with them. When you don't think about them anymore. And unexpectedly they are back In your life. It will work the same way with your new ex as well.
Remember that everything we chase after runs from us. It is just the nature of things.
It is quite possible for you to force him to be back with you now. But believe me - the best way to return a man is for him to really want to come back himself. All you need to do at this point is to improve yourself so he will think you are the best in his life. And he will choose you again and again.
And if you want to know about the stages your ex goes through after a breakup I have a video available on this channel. I will put the link below.
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