This is how a woman kills a man's love, her value, his interest, and makes herself uninteresting to him. Check to see if you do any of them:
Those are the 10 mistakes that lower your value in dating:
1. Your ACTIONS of INTEREST is more than his ACTIONS of INTEREST. Yo
u show way more interest in him than he does. You run after him.⠀
2. You stop dating others when he doesn't ask you to be exclusive: He understands your intentions and desires to be with him. He is "enough". ⠀
3. Negative Social Proof: You demonstrate that you are no longer needed by anyone else. ⠀
4. Demonstrations of jealousy. You show/express your jealousy to him.
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5. Clarifying your relationship status from the position of a needy person. He should be the one trying to pin you down. If he is not - you are giving too much.
6. Fighting for the man, competition. Especially with other women. ⠀ ⠀
7. Trying to get into his frame, adapting to him, trying to match him, picking up his interests against yours, trying to win his interest. You are afraid to disappoint him. ⠀
8. Trying to prove to him your love, his love, your compatibility, your willingness to please, your destiny to be together. Or force him to choose you.
9. Conducting relationships like "mistress", “friend with benefits”, “just lovers”, "one time sex", "healthy sex". ⠀Coming over for booty calls so that he doesn't invite another woman.
10. Willingness to talk about physical intimacy early on when you do not have a truly serious relationship yet. At the beginning of a serious relationship - passionately having intercourse, demonstrating tons of experience to make him very pleased, hoping that he will then definitely fall in love.
It's not everything that kills your significance. But doing any of these is deadly to your relationship! ⠀
This list is not based on the principles of morality and ethics. This list is based on the nature of men.
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You have to restore the balance of interest before you can do any actions towards your ex….
Don't worry, you can do it! It's just a matter of time and your self improvement.
However, if you keep making mistakes during your breakup period - it might postpone the time of his come-back even further.
You have to break the emotional connection with him first and concentrate on yourself and your own life.
Believe me - they always come back! Good luck.
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